Things I Wish I Knew Before Moving to Japan

Moving to Japan is a dream for many — the culture, the food, the stunning landscapes, and unique way of life all draw people from around the world. But as exciting as it is, living in Japan comes with surprises you don’t always see coming. Looking back, here are some things I wish I knew before making the leap, with a few personal stories sprinkled in.

1. The Language Barrier Is Real — But Manageable

Even after studying Japanese for months, I still found myself stuck at convenience stores or train stations, struggling to read signs or ask for help. Once, I got on the wrong train because I didn’t fully understand the announcements — luckily, a kind stranger helped me find my way back. Having a translation app saved me countless times, and I learned that locals really appreciate any effort to speak Japanese, even if it’s just a few words.

2. Paperwork Takes Time and Patience

I thought setting up my phone and internet would be quick — boy, was I wrong. I ended up waiting in line for hours at the city office, only to realize I’d forgotten a key document. It was frustrating, but I learned that patience and double-checking everything are essential here. Now, I keep a checklist handy for every appointment.

3. Cash Is Still King (Mostly)

When I first moved to a rural town, I went to buy groceries with my credit card — only to find the ATM didn’t accept foreign cards and the shop was cash-only. I had to borrow money from my new neighbor (who laughed kindly at my rookie mistake). Since then, I always carry cash, especially when I’m outside the big cities.

4. Understanding Trash and Recycling Rules Is Crucial

My first trash day was a comedy of errors. I put burnable and non-burnable trash in the same bag and was promptly scolded by a neighbor (all in Japanese!). I quickly realized that following the strict sorting rules isn’t just about avoiding fines — it’s a way to show respect to the community.

5. Public Transport Is Amazing — But You Still Need a Bike or Car Outside Cities

I thought I’d never need a car in Japan, but living outside Tokyo changed that fast. I bought a cheap bike and discovered it’s the best way to explore the neighborhood and get to the nearest train station. Having that extra mobility made daily life so much easier.

6. Neighborhoods Have Their Own Vibes — Research Is Key

I once rented a place in a quiet town, expecting peace and quiet, but quickly realized it was so quiet that the nearest convenience store was a 20-minute walk! Now, I always spend a weekend exploring neighborhoods before committing. It’s worth it to find a spot that matches your lifestyle.

7. Cultural Norms Are Everywhere — And Sometimes Unspoken

Removing shoes indoors was a surprise at first — I walked into someone’s home with muddy shoes once and felt mortified! Also, I learned the hard way that talking loudly on trains is a no-go. Observing others and asking questions helped me adapt faster.

8. Finding International-Friendly Services Takes Effort

I had to do some digging to find a dentist who spoke English. Thankfully, local expat Facebook groups were a goldmine for recommendations. Building a network of fellow foreigners and locals made life easier.

9. Homes Are Different — And So Are Utilities

My first winter, I was shocked at how cold the house felt. Turns out, many Japanese homes don’t have central heating. I ended up buying a small electric heater and lots of blankets. It taught me to adjust expectations and embrace the unique quirks of Japanese living.

10. Building Relationships Takes Time — But It’s Worth It

At first, I felt a bit isolated — making friends takes effort, especially with language and cultural differences. But joining local events and volunteering helped me build meaningful connections. Now, I cherish the friendships I’ve made here.

Final Thoughts

Moving to Japan is an adventure full of unexpected twists. If I could talk to my past self, I’d say: be patient, stay curious, and embrace the journey — the ups and downs will make your experience all the richer.

If you’re thinking about moving or just arrived, know you’re not alone! Feel free to reach out anytime — I’m here to help.